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WHAT?! BEAUTY= SELF ESTEEM & SELF WORTH?! NO!

                                                                        

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We have all seen the images of Kim K baring it all.  This isn’t the first time though, as some would argue her sex tape is what created her pathway to fame in the first place.  Some of us support her, some of us bash her, either way you look at it, you look at it.   What is our fascination with her?  Is it her beauty? Is it her untamed sex appeal?  For me, it is her ability to maintain her sense of self worth and keep on keepin’ on, even when the “haters” of the world are attempting to tear her down.  Whether you love her or you hate her, you can’t deny that if it was you who was on the stage of the world, you would crumble at some of the things people say to her and about her.  Of course, the ego side of you is saying… “no I wouldn’t”, but the truth of the matter is, not many of us have that level of confidence to block out the negative things people say about us.  Think about your own life for a second.  How many times have you been wounded when someone says something mean to you, or about you?  How many arguments have you been in because someone “threw salt at you” and it burned like a mother ******?  We could all stand to use higher self worth and we would all benefit from valuing ourselves just a little more.  In fact, those of you who are stuck in judgement towards her are the ones who are the most wounded.  If you had true core self confidence, and knew your value and your worth, you would judge no one.

I think the real problem here is not Kim’s nude photos or her “untamed” behavior.  It is the people who are judging her so harshly.  “We” are upset that she’s “teaching our girls negative behavior and self disrespect”, but what the hell are we teaching them by bashing her?!  That it’s okay to tear another woman down out of our own insecurities. That is the root of the problem, our insecurities.  If you knew who you truly were, and you were in love with yourself from the inside out (NOT THE OUTSIDE IN), you wouldn’t waste your time judging her.  You would know that in judgement we hold ourselves in place, in a negative place.  Judgement doesn’t feel good, and in that not feeling good it is stifling your life force.  The negative feelings you are projecting in her direction, are flowing back to you like a boomerang that is missing its intended target.  Get to the real truth of the matter and figure out what limiting and faulty programs you have in your consciousness that cause you to attack another woman.  Only then will “our girls” learn the truth of self worth and value.  Insecurity means you are not secure.  If you are not secure, you attack.  Security means secure in our bodies, within our selves as a whole, and our worlds.  When you look at photos of her and it is causing you to go into attack mode (I don’t care what your conscious excuse for doing it is either), it means you are insecure.  It means you have faulty learned, and conditioned belief systems of your unworthiness within your consciousness.  We have been taught that beauty is what’s outside when in fact this is as false as it can get. These programs are wreaking havoc in your life and your relationships and you aren’t even aware of it.  It’s extremely painful and it causes your life force to diminish, on every level, in every area.  Your beauty is not what is on the outside.  It is not how big your boobs are, it is not how big your butt is, it is not the length of your hair, it is not the size of your lips, IT IS YOUR LIGHT FROM WITHIN.  Your light is either shinning brightly or it is diminished by judgment making you look even “uglier”.  The external beauty is magnified when we have a beautiful relationship with who we are and we are not afraid to shine our light to the world.  The most important relationship you have, is the relationship with yourself.  This is the foundation for ALL of your other relationships and you are in a relationship with EVERYTHING: from money to your man to your happiness.  You can’t change it until you become aware of it.

**Here are 4 STEPS TO BECOMING MORE SECURE IN YOURSELF AND KNOWING YOUR WORTH AND YOUR VALUE:

1.) REALIZE YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND THAT EVERYONE HAS SOME ISSUES REGARDING THEIR WORTH.  Most of the programs that we are running in our consciousness are limiting.  In fact leading edge science has proven that 80% of these programs and beliefs are sabotaging and stifling to ourselves and our lives.

2.) USE YOUR FEELINGS TO FIGURE OUT THE ROOT OF THE SELF WORTH ISSUE. In other words, when you get into a situation that causes you pain, ask yourself “where does this pain come from?”.  9 times out of 10 it will stem from a childhood pain.  This original infliction point has been conditioned and engrained into your consciousness throughout your life and you are unconsciously perpetuating it.

3.) INSTEAD OF BEING REACTIVE, BE RESPONSIVE. Rather than continuing your life of judgement against other people and yourself (if you are judging Kim, you are judging a whole lot more than just her in your day to day life), stop judging everything for 10 days.  When you feel yourself slipping into the judgement, respond by acknowledging and starting over.  Look at the root cause of your pain from an adult perspective, and give yourself permission to see the truth, from a higher vantage point.  Most of the time when we remember a trauma or pain from our past, we associate with it as though we are reliving it.  This is the inner child within us that has not been healed.  It is an immature expression and we are still holding the pain from this issue as though it is still happening.  This is our brains way of keeping us protected, only it doesn’t work, it keeps us from experiencing life.  When you give yourself permission to release it, and see it for what it really is, through the eyes of someone with a wiser perspective, it will heal and change.  You can also ask for help from your Source (whatever you believe in).  Not only are you healing this on a physical level, you are healing this for your future self as well.  It really is that easy.

4.) FORGIVE YOURSELF AND MOVE ON. DO SOMETHING NICE FOR YOURSELF. Go out and buy yourself something nice.  If you are truly conscious enough to do the above steps, you deserve a reward.  We spend so much time looking at other people and judging and comparing ourselves to them that we forget our own light.  If you can go 10 days without judging ANYTHING, reward yourself!!

 

If you truly want to rid yourself of that inner critic who not only puts down the Kims of the world but YOU too, visit www.BrillianceMeetsBeauty.com/the-power-of-a-woman to learn how you can LOVE WHO YOU ARE from the inside out AND CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER.  REINVENT YOU, REINVENT YOUR LIFE.

AS WITHIN, SO WITHOUT

 

In Love and In Light,

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www.BrillianceMeetsBeauty.com

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The one thing that sets all humans apart

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What is the one thing that sets us apart from each other, and other beings on this planet?
Their thoughts.  The way they perceive. Their Beliefs.  This is what makes each of us different.  Our operating systems have been programmed extremely differently, even if we are a twin and in the same environment as another our entire lives.  We are radically different.  Why?
Everything we have experienced in our lives means something to us individually.  Everything.  Every word, every encounter, every person, every bit of information we are exposed to means something different to each one of us.  All of the information we are exposed to has been stored in our consciousness to mean something.  Think of the word Love, it means something different to every person.  Think of the name James, it means something different to every person.  Your brain will scan for your specific meaning and give you a conclusion.  We make decisions in life based on what things mean to us.  Most meanings are preprogrammed from early childhood when our brains are in subconscious storing mode.  In this mode there is no critical mind and our conscious mind has not been developed yet, so everything we are exposed to we program as Truth.  Everything.  We learn who we are in this phase as well, or, in reality, who others think we are.  As adults we are living out our lives based on the meanings we were given from other people. Our patterns and systems for doing everything from money to relationships are fragments of other peoples programming (the people we were exposed to).  Even if we manage to override some of this programming as adults, the core foundations that were stored as children, are still the root of the operating system.  To give you an example of how conditioned we are allow me to highlight a study that was done on children and their creativity.  Most children before the age of 3 have a creativity rating of 100%.  Creativity is intuition, dreams, imagination, connection to the truth.  Ever see a baby smile out of no where as if smiling at something?  Or how about children who have Imaginary friends, or the new star children who are coming to this planet right now who see things and have incredible verifiable accounts of past lives?  Our intuition is our connection to our higher self, our source of creation, right?  We are fully connected in early childhood.  We have no insecurities, only 2 fears, loud noises and falling.  That’s it.  Now take this same group of children at the age of 7, when your identity forms and your critical mind forms.  They score only 5%.  What happens between 3 and 7? Earthly programming and disconnection to Source.  Most of us come from dysfunctional families.  Even the ones who come from “normal” families still have dysfunctional belief systems that were installed.  We are a culmination of all that we have experienced, throughout all time.

We are programmed in 2 direct ways:  1 early childhood subconscious programming, 2 traumas.  When you experience a trauma your conscious mind shuts down so your subconscious mind can absorb all information.  During the subconscious programming literally thousands of meanings are being installed, and either add to the beliefs you already have, or create new ones, and they are not usually positive beliefs.  Most of these beliefs are beliefs about who you believe yourself to be.  You go throughout your life operating from these unconscious systems.  Every meaning you have taken on, dictates what decisions you will make and how you will feel.  What you believe, subconsciously, about yourself and who you, are will dictate what level of success you reach in your life.  My client  was having a hard time attracting a loving relationship.  She was attracting all the wrong guys.  Men who were controlling, men who didn’t value her, men who were unavailable.  She honestly believed there was something wrong with her.  She thought that she was faulty.  Have you ever wanted to reach a goal so bad and you just kept falling short?  What do you automatically think?  There’s something wrong with you.  Well when the deep unconscious root was pulled to the surface the truth was discovered.  She was abandoned by her mother when she was 3 years old.  Her mother gave her a “last bath” and left.  Left her in the bath and never returned. From that experience she concluded there was something wrong with her.  And that if her own mother didn’t want her, surely no one else would.  On top of that she concluded that if she loved anyone, they would leave her.  She spent her entire life with this subconscious system running her life.  Another client of mine Darlene, she wasn’t reaching the level of success in her business she yearned for.  She was putting all this time and effort into buying new programs and learning new things, yet she wasn’t getting anywhere.  She was struggling financially and emotionally as she put her heart and soul into this dream only to yield no results.  She was on the verge of launching a training company and kept sabotaging herself.  She had people interested in taking her courses, yet she was “never ready”.  She was procrastinating on doing the things she needed to do and spinning her wheels on things she didn’t.  When getting to the root of the problem it had nothing to do with her business.  It was linked to her fear of being successful, letting people down, and being in the spotlight for others to “pick on her”.  She was in an abusive relationship when she was a teen, and from that was traumatically conditioned to believe if she stepped out she would be abused, so in order to stay safe, she was subconsciously keeping herself where she was, the comfort and safety zone, no matter how uncomfortable and unsafe it really was, it was known.  You see when we have experiences in life, especially traumatic ones, we keep the vantage point we had when it happened.  Even if it happened 50 years ago, you will still have the same perceptual remembering as you did when it occurred.  Think of a time going to Disney land when you were a child.  or anywhere else.  Or think of your 10th birthday or whatever birthday you can remember.  See it, really see it.  You are there, you are that person, you are that age.  So you can clearly understand that frozen in time, is that version of you, who still thinks the way that version thought.  Think of something painful that happened to you when you were young.  You still feel that pain right?  Level 6-10, it’s still there.  Well that pain is what is guiding your decision making.  We think that because we have learned to cope, we have healed and are not effected by it.  This is not the case, again we have only learned to cope.   Our identities are shaped by our perceptions.  What you believe about yourself, and who you believe yourself to be will determine what you will experience in life.  In every area.  Your feelings command the energy in the Universe.  You are given free will and so you were blessed with the right to choose.  You choose this, you’ll go this way.  You choose that, you’ll go that way.  When your choices are influenced by your earthly programming and your false identity, it makes it very difficult to catapult yourself into your desired destiny.  Chances are you are catapulting yourself right back into the cycle of karmic density.  Having to learn lessons the hard way and experience failure over and over with little successes, in one area of your life or another.  This programming shows up in different areas for different people.  Some people can have stellar careers and problematic relationships.  Or visa versa.  The level of success or failure is determined by the programming; The meaning you give things.

When the above faulty programming was “reprogrammed”, my clients experienced instantaneous deep healing and instantaneous results in their lives.  Soul mate relationships were born, lucrative businesses were born, and empowered women were awakened.  This is typical with my work.  Astronomical results are normal.

The meaning you give things will determine the course of action you take.  Most meanings you have for “things” were appointed when you were a child.  You still hold the same meaning for each thing as you did when it was originated.  Since time has passed most of your meanings have been solidified, growing stronger with time, as time gives you the opportunity to “gather more evidence”.  We attempt to “get away” from things that are in our past that cause us emotional pain.  Well this “getting away” does not actually get you away from it.  It enables the emotions to direct your life.  You must heal your past if you wish to have a beautiful future.  It does not have to be as hard as sitting on a couch, digging through each trauma.  That is the old way of doing things, and for the most part is not as beneficial as the new Quantum healing that is available to us.  In fact, when you “rehash” your past you are doing it from the same emotional feeling place as you did when it happened.  This is counter productive.  The new way of healing allows your wise adult self to come to new understandings and at the same time, allow the energy of healing to occur at deep, deep levels.  When the root is healed, all other like wounds, are healed without having to dissect through each one.  It is miraculous and spontaneous.  This method of healing we call “The Divine Effect” is very scientific.  We all know on some level that there is a healing force within each one of our cells, this is why our bodies heal cuts without us having to think about it.  When you access the subconscious mind on a deep level, the healing will naturally occur.  My clients experience deep healing from a level 10 pain to a 0 within minutes.  This is not random, and every one of my clients experiences this, every one of them.  Patterns and limitations that were previously stopping them from living their dreams, are instantly reprogrammed and they experience a deep sense of power, rendering them unstoppable.  The Universe aligns according to the new signal they are sending out, and magic happens where ever they go.  A scene in the movie “Transcendence” sums it up perfectly:  “if you leave out even one subconscious memory, you are dealing with an entirely different person”.  This is what I do, this is my gift.  I sense the hidden subconscious blocks and barriers within people, heal old wounds and turn them all to power.

Think of the patterns and programs that are running your life.  It is happening without you knowing it.  You are on Auto Pilot, living your life as you.  Is it relationship trouble?  Is it your ability to make good money?  Is it your health and fitness?  Is it your spirituality or connection with God?  There are patterns running your life in all areas.  Think of the areas you are experiencing difficulty in.  You have faulty programming there.  This Universe is NOT RANDOM.  It is very precise and predictable.  You can live the life you dream of living.  All it takes is to discover what programming is hindering you from beneath the surface and transform it to power; at deep levels.  “You cannot solve a problem from the same level of mind that created it.” Albert Einstein.  “Until You make the Unconscious Conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it Fate.”  Carl Jung.  You must look at things from outside of the frame.  This takes guidance and another mind to help you navigate.  Imagine living your life from a place of power, rather than a place of protection?  You are a culmination of all of your experiences through out all of time.  Isn’t it time that you deliberately decide what you want to become, what is serving you, and what isn’t so you can move on in your life to your souls fullest expression?  I think it is.  The time is NOW.

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Randina Marie

“The Queen of Rapid Transformation”

LMNLPP. CMWLC, Certified Life Coach, Energy Healer

Transformational Healer, Author, and Speaker

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www.BrillianceMeetsBeauty.com